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How do you deal with Stingy Beggars?

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How do you deal with Stingy Beggars?

No, i am not speaking about homeless individuals. I had an item which a friend was welcome to use, but decided to use a trial product that was still in the box. I believe the trial was 30days, after that I would be billed. I was shocked to receive a bill. Not only that, the bill was going to be paid with a card I had on file with them.

I confronted this individual and the reply was in the line of "... it was a better product than the opened item, that is why i have been using it..."   WHAT? I am paying monthly for the first item and welcome you to use it. But you chose to unbox a NEW PRODUCT, understood the charges applied after the 30days trial was over. But you still continued to use it?

I revoked all access to my things and gradually cut ties with the individual.

 

One person even admitted during a casual conversation "...You know i'm stingy..."

 

Stingy beggars, what goes through your mind when you act this way?

Everyone else how do you deal with them?

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Posted : 17/05/2022 12:46 am
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As a self admitting stingy person, I would not say I am a beggar.

But to be honest most stingy people find other people's stuff very interesting 🤩 

It's not about taking advantage of someone, if invited I would certainly make the best of it.

I am far from taking stuff that does not belong to me. If you have plenty and you offer. I would not say no.

What are friends for ? 😀 

 
Posted : 17/05/2022 1:10 am
Brittany
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Like a vampire. When invited you come in and drain everyone lifeless.

Note taken.

In Nigeria, they pretend they do not have money, then go around begging.

They mostly misuse the funds and end up running out of genuine helpers when times get hard.

Women do it more often to men that have an interest in them.

The difference is the men overlook it because she may be pretty.

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Posted : 17/05/2022 1:54 am
Henry
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Don't try me. I would surprise you like Bivol did Canelo.

You can only pull that stunt ones. After that we are no longer friends.

A lot of people think. Someone's empathy is a sign of weakness.

Your are just chasing away good blessings with that behaviour and mindset.

When you need it the most, that is when no one would be there for you.

 
Posted : 17/05/2022 2:54 am
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